The one who won’t dip in a month, that won’t go to a better looking girl. That doesn’t want you just for the physical things. The one who respects you and your decisions. The one that understand that family is first and school is important. The one that won’t take you away from your friends. Someone who’s not embarrassed to be with you in public. The one that talks to you the same way, both in person and on text. The one who just loves unconditionally.
When I'm with you, I act different. In a good way. I smile more and laugh more. I don't have to pretend everything is okay when it's really not. With you, I can drop the fake smile and put on a real one. I don't feel hurt and alone when I'm with you. Instead, I feel safe and loved. You're easy to talk to, and you listen to me. I don't have to worry about holding back with you. I don't feel self conscious. I don't ever feel insecure or sad. you show me that you really do care, and you're not just pretending. I really appreciate your company, because with you I'm different. With you, I'm happy.
I’m scared of you. I’m scared because everything is going so well right now that maybe something will come and ruin it. I’m scared of losing the only thing that’s making me happy right now and that’s you.
The only person that can bring you true happiness is yourself. Friends leave, lovers disappear, and at the end of the day all that’s left is you. So don’t solely depend on others to make your life amazing. Make your own life the best it can be. Live your life the way you want to live it – don’t be influenced by other people in a way that’ll hurt you. Look after yourself. If there’s something you want don’t wait for someone to make it happen or for it to come to you; make your own dreams come true. Don’t let someone tell you can’t do something. You’re the only person that knows how much you’re capable of accomplishing. If someone doubts you, work even harder and prove them wrong. Focus on what you need to do and forget about what they think.
Love yourself unconditionally. If you have flaws, don’t let them define who you are. Don’t compare yourself to someone else’s vision of beauty. Don’t lower your standards or expectations to appease another person. You are perfect when you’re yourself completely and if someone can’t accept that don’t worry about it. Don’t live to gain other’s approval of you because sometimes, no matter what you do or how hard you try you may never get it. Work on making yourself a better person for you. You know what’s important to you and what you think matters. Sometimes it won’t match up with the person sitting next to you and that’s okay. Focus on yourself.
If you’re alone, embrace it. Love yourself so much that it doesn’t matter if you’re in a crowd of people or hanging out in your bedroom in solitude. Be happy to have down time with yourself. Build your confidence so high that you don’t have to depend on being with someone constantly to feel okay. Be secure with just being you. Trust your instincts and be true to you. You’re the only one that knows what is absolutely best for you. No one else can decide that. No one knows your struggles or journey better than you. If they judge you, ignore them. Don’t change who you are because someone doesn’t understand how you live your life. Treat yourself with respect, compassion and love. The world can be cold and cruel, but going through it with a heart of love for yourself can help brighten it up.